| Location | Durham |
| Age | 57 years |
| Cause of Death | Cancer |
| Date of Birth | 15/08/1947 |
| Date of Death | 17/08/2004 |
| Visitors | 870 since 13/09/2008 |
| Creator |
my beautiful mum.
my mum died of inflammotry breast cancer 2 days after her 57th birthday.she fought a brave battle
for 21 mths.she was given 3 weeks in dec 03 and lived till august o4!!she waited till her final task
was done.she wanted to say goodbye to her first born grandchild,her blue eyed boy jamie.
that was the last time she spoke or opened her eyes.
although she died at home with her children around her,tracey,brendan and kirsten.her passing left a
massive void in our lives.
mum saw life through rose coloured glasses,often called eccentric!!
she loved many things in life but perhaps her greatest love was her three granchildren.jamie,carly
and jake.my 3 children.
now i feel that my mum went for a reason.she needed to prepare heaven for her blue eyed boy.
her beloved jamie passed into her world on the 14.08.08.4 years since her passing.now i have 2
children,you have my firstborn as i was yours
look after my boy mum,he is safe in your arms.
tracey
mum
i feel terrible when i come on here and it reminds me how much i don't tell you how much i miss you..i do mum so much,,,yesterday was your birthday..and tomoro it is 5 years since you left us...i suppose i just feel now that you went for a reason...you went to prepare a cloud for your grandson..my baby..he left us to come back to you on the 14.08.08//day b4 your birthday..3 days before your memorial..mum look after him..i love you..tx
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HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO YOU KATHY xxXxx
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hi mum.came to see you yesterday and put you a pink tree up!!kirsten is gonna put some baubles on,i was to cold!!your mam will be coming up with her soon to put you a wreath on,she usually does.i no it hurts you but i've tried mum.its down to her now.
anyway...
jamies gravestone went up this week,two behind you.i nearly fell in with him i got such a shock!!was just excpecting the foundations.going again today with some bits so will come to see you.
he was with me at yours yesterday i know he was.i was dreading xmas day,and still am.but jamie always came with me to your grave on xmas morning.
he was there today,i actually turned around,i couldn't see him but i could feel him.he was there.
i just borrowed him back from you for a couple of seconds.
coming up again soon when jake is up.love you mum,always.tx
thanx for coming thru to carly mum,i knew you would.i'm pleased to hear you have jamie with you and your with your dad.i hear jamie is running you ragged!!i knew you would like carlys hair darker,she looks more like you with your beautiful long black hair before the cancer took its hold on you.i laughed the other things you said.typical you."mere man"shame you couldn't have chosen better yourself!!but at least him leaving you 2 mths before you died gave us that special time to spend with you.i loved lying next to you and talking sxxt till all hours those last few weeks.so thanx shaun,u may have been spineless but you gave us our mum back,even if it wasn't forever,
love you mum.traceyx
To the living, I am gone,
To the sorrowful, I will never return.
To the angry, I was cheated
But to the happy, I am at peace.
And to the faithful, I have never left.
I cannot speak, but I can listen
I cannot be seen, but I can be heard.
Remember me in your hearts,
In your thoughts and memories.
Remember the times we loved,
And the many times we cried, the battle's we fought,
And the times we laughed.
For if you always think of me
I will never have gone.i am beside you all the time.x
hi mum.hope your having a ball today.and you were watching down on kirsten,giving her strength.i no you never came to me tonite,but you will.love you mumx
hi mum.coming up to the graves this afternoon to put some roses on for you and jamie.going to spirutalist church tonite so if your watching give me a sign to say you are ok and you have jamie with you.never been to a church before.although you did come through to me on a 1-1 about a year after you died.
never been since,cos you warned me.told jamie he had to be careful.he never listened mum.and you were right.one baby and another on the way.
see you soon.love you,always.tx
mumx
As I drove to the cemetery this morning where my precious mum is buried,I could see so many thing's in the fresh mound's of dirt. There's broken heart's and not just heart's that are broken but shattered into a million pieces.Look closer and you can see them scattered over the fresh mound's.Mixed with the pebbles and flower's is whats left of somones heart. You see shattered live's that will never be the same.You see emptiness and heartache.You see someone with nothing to live for,just a fresh mound of dirt.You can see memories and smiles.You feel the love that surrounds you as the wind twirls the leaves over the fresh mounds of dirt. You can imagine a soul rising to be with the angels.Through the tears and pain you see happiness and you feel peace,you pray as you look at the fresh mound's of dirt.
thats on a good day mum.
i do feel peace at your grave.
but then i look behind you and i see my son's grave.i don't feel that peace yet,just pain.
i miss you both so much.but i know you went for a reason now,for jamie.
tx
Hi Mam, I still feel like a little girl when I think of you and wish I had my mam to say everything will be ok. I was looking at some very old fotos of you last nite, of Brendans christening. You were gorgeous. Your mam is missing you, you know that. Keep your eye on us all and when we step out of line guide us back onto the right path. Love you. Kirsten xxxxxxx
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